The End of How
This is how we cross the line.
We walk, flippantly, past the soldiers. On their side of the street, we wait for the red to turn green. You begin to see discrimination even in the length of the lights, here. On the other side of the street, they no longer care about us. We dodge cars, ignore the signals, walking, talking, crossing.
How to greet these young men and women in drab green, guns hung casually at their hips? Do we say hello? A nod? A glance? A poorly pronounced Shalom?
This is how we find balance--any way we can. This is how we try to humanize a dehumanizing situation. Do we ask the soldiers to help us harvest olives? To put our heavy bags of olives in the back of their olive green armored vehicles? Do we pray? Do we forgive? Do we follow Jesus? And if so, what does this make us? Anti-semites? Anti-Muslim? Anti-other? How do we define ourselves?
This is how we argue--impassioned, over wine, in the guest house.
This is how none of it matters, when another house is demolished, another olive tree cut down, another enemy made.
This is how I doubt myself--aggressive, keep on the move, never let them see you weak.
This is how Christ comes to me--broken, angry, violent--saying, "I have come not for the righteous, but for the sick."
This is how we hurt. This is how these walls of division are raised. This is how humans become objects and profiles and numbers and......
and
this is how we try to put an end to how.
At training, one of our presenters told us a story about her grandfather's house. She said that in his house, you were never allowed to cut bread, only to break it. She always thought this was an eccentric tradition, but she never asked. Once, when she was older, she finally questioned her grandfather about it. He told her this: "When you cut bread, you create neat, straight, definite lines between what is yours and what is mine. When we break bread, it is messy. Part of yours is mine, and part of mine is yours."
"In my house," he said, "there are no neat lines between us. Some of what you are is always a part of me, and some of what I am is always a part of you."
Let us break bread together, on our knees.
Let us break bread together, on our knees.
When we fall on our knees, with our faces to the rising sun
O Lord, have mercy on us.
We walk, flippantly, past the soldiers. On their side of the street, we wait for the red to turn green. You begin to see discrimination even in the length of the lights, here. On the other side of the street, they no longer care about us. We dodge cars, ignore the signals, walking, talking, crossing.
How to greet these young men and women in drab green, guns hung casually at their hips? Do we say hello? A nod? A glance? A poorly pronounced Shalom?
This is how we find balance--any way we can. This is how we try to humanize a dehumanizing situation. Do we ask the soldiers to help us harvest olives? To put our heavy bags of olives in the back of their olive green armored vehicles? Do we pray? Do we forgive? Do we follow Jesus? And if so, what does this make us? Anti-semites? Anti-Muslim? Anti-other? How do we define ourselves?
This is how we argue--impassioned, over wine, in the guest house.
This is how none of it matters, when another house is demolished, another olive tree cut down, another enemy made.
This is how I doubt myself--aggressive, keep on the move, never let them see you weak.
This is how Christ comes to me--broken, angry, violent--saying, "I have come not for the righteous, but for the sick."
This is how we hurt. This is how these walls of division are raised. This is how humans become objects and profiles and numbers and......
and
this is how we try to put an end to how.
At training, one of our presenters told us a story about her grandfather's house. She said that in his house, you were never allowed to cut bread, only to break it. She always thought this was an eccentric tradition, but she never asked. Once, when she was older, she finally questioned her grandfather about it. He told her this: "When you cut bread, you create neat, straight, definite lines between what is yours and what is mine. When we break bread, it is messy. Part of yours is mine, and part of mine is yours."
"In my house," he said, "there are no neat lines between us. Some of what you are is always a part of me, and some of what I am is always a part of you."
Let us break bread together, on our knees.
Let us break bread together, on our knees.
When we fall on our knees, with our faces to the rising sun
O Lord, have mercy on us.

